Mad Men, "Lady Lazarus": the Draper marriage and shifting power dynamics

Quick Take: Mad Men, "Lady Lazarus"
"Why do they get to decide what happens?" - Pete 

Review: Mad Men, "Lady Lazarus"
(S0508) In past reviews I've talked a lot about the concept of change in the Mad Men universe. Because the show takes place in the 1960s, a good bit of the discussion has revolved around cultural evolution and changes to the external creeping into the character's lives. But variations in musical taste or fashion or drug use aren't the only changes at play in Mad Men. The fifth season -- and in particular last night's "Lady Lazarus" -- has spotlighted a dramatic power dynamic shift within Don's personal life.

For four seasons, Don's home life was defined by his significant power advantage over Betty (January Jones). He came and went as he pleased. He bedded teachers and coworkers and department store heiresses. He worked too much and spent too little time with his kids. He drank like a fish and smoked like a chimney. In other words, he ruled the roost.

Now, in the span of eight episodes, Don's masculine power has been completely sapped by his new bride, Megan (Jessica Pare). Megan keeps Don current, or at least tries. ("No one can keep up; it's always changing," she admits.) More importantly, she keeps him from totally mentally checking out at work. Plus, she's completely responsible for bringing in the Heinz account and at least partially responsible for SCDP's Cool Whip business.

It's no wonder Don is thrown for such a loop when Megan decides to quit the advertising business and refocus on her dreams of acting. Don is so used to be being in complete control over his identity -- so much so that he successfully creates a new one -- that it must be extremely troubling to have so much of his current identity tethered to another person. On-the-nose as it may be, it makes sense that Don would nearly fall down an elevator shaft the moment Megan leaves. He's lost without her, and that's not something we're used to from Don.

What will become of Don and his tenuous grip on fidelity (sanity?) when his wife is no longer making the evening commute from the office with him? If Pete's dalliance with a Gilmore Girl taught us one thing, it's that a man can get into quite a bit of trouble on the train home.

By Lucas High

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On: Monday, May 7, 2012
Eric - TV Geek Army "Revered Leader" said:

I think it's worth noting too that Mad Men is able to maintain its creative excellence by examining these characters' lives from different angles as they change and evolve over time. In Season Four, Don was depressed and lost and adrift. This season he's actually much happier (for him), but finds himself as you note, Lucas, in a very unusual (for him) dynamic in which he has become dependant on his wife for many things. 

On: Monday, May 7, 2012
TheVodkaParty said:

In an episode freighted with symbols of death, the meaning of one running subplot this season becomes crystal clear. That is, the hunt for the elusive Heinz account. Anyone who's ever seen a grade-B horror film knows all too well the red condiment makes a perfect stand-in for human blood. Looking back to 1966, Heinz could have used the creative flair of SCDP. Here are some actual samples of mid-60s Heinz ads and promotions from TheVodkaParty:

On: Tuesday, May 8, 2012
Lucas High said:

I too have been convinced that this season is inevitably leading to the death of one of our characters. All along I've been predicting Pete, but at this point, with all of the references to suicide insurance, etc, it would seem a little too obvious.

On: Tuesday, May 8, 2012
Steve Geise said:

Ooh, when are you starting the Mad Men death pool? I'll take Roger, seems to me like he'd be the most likely candidate. He sees himself being supplanted by Pete and his entire role in the company becoming completely superfluous, he's adrift without a wife again, he sees the world changing rapidly around him and leaving him behind, so if the death ends up being a suicide it's probably him. I hope it's not Lane, that would suck if he died in Fringe and this show this year.

On: Wednesday, May 9, 2012
Lucas High said:

Roger certainly would appear to the most likely candidate. I'm sticking with Pete, although if I had a second or third vote, I'd probably go with Megan or Betty.


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